behave

being single is something. i have to say, as a single after long term relationship, i have to say i'm tired and relieved. there's nothing wrong being single as long as you happy. single doesn't mean your lonely, doesn't mean your not pretty or the worst, nggak laku. in one edition of cita cinta magazine the editor wrote:

"single is one step of your life when a girl could gain something big in her life, focus on career, and achieve everything you want to"

Aquila Asia Magazine

so its the flipside and fortunatly,i'm thingking the same like the editor wrote, i'm single and i don't regret it, i still manage to have fine relationship with my ex so do i start to make new friends with others, there's no boundaries after all and i'm settle with that, less complain and dont care about other people life. I have bestfriends to hang out and sharing stories and in my last semester in college i want to focus working on my undergraduate thesis and spending time with my buddies but it doesn't mean i'm not mingle, but there's the limit for mingling too. i'm not gonna start mingle or respond to a boy who just broke up or not qualified with my type. as a girl we have to smart enough to choose our mate. that's all i want to say. since one nossy girl starting fire to me, i'm not gonna stand still and do nothing, after call the fire brigade, i'll make sure i shut her with tons of water first. *so happy that my undergraduate thesis proposal is done* Alhamdulillah.

term and condition

thru my almost 4 years college, i've been invited to attending my friends wedding, which is super weird for me, wedding while you still taking studies? well, year after year i try to understand. there r lot of reason why they are married and accept every term and condition they have, well that's a commitment while me still learning how to step on earth, some of my friends ready to jump to another life and it was awesome for me, to take that path of life isn't easy, you still young and yet experience-less but having courage to take someting beyond your average ages decision. i should say that i proud of them, i really do happy for them and blast their marriage.

eka's wedding

wafa's wedding

kak tara's wedding

kak rizky's wedding

towil and kak Gifa's wedding

Deli's wedding

Ainun's wedding

time goes on and i should say that, my wedding dress is better, i learn a lot from guest and adapt it to my own wardrobe. somehow if i don't feel like in the mood to dress up, i just wear jeans and kaftan, i know, its not appropriate to attend a wedding with jeans so i swear i won't do it and yeah, HAVE A HAPPY WEDDING!

festive

turn this:

with this:

 into this:

Ingridients:Bananas, Ceres Festive and Dips and Spread

its not as yumm as it look like, my mom said i pick the wrong type of bananas :(

I'm not a good wifey after all. i'm so sorry my future husband :(

brain nutrition

just attend Salihara discussion about "political islam in the middle east and indonesia" and found many interesting facts about it.

Salihara booklet and calendar events

1.Indonesia lebih punya banyak pengalaman berpolitik dibanding negara timur tengah

2.Indonesia yang mayoritas penduduknya islam tidak selalu memilih partai islam sebagai pemenang pemilu sedangkan setelah revolusi/arab springs ini penduduk timur tengah cenderung memilih partai islam ex:  kemenangan IM di Mesir.

3.Bila barat menginginkan demokrasi ada di Timur Tengah, maka yang berkuasa adalah partai islam (Anekdot Husni Mubarak) maka dari itu AS dan sekutunya membiarkan monarki berkembang di Timur Tengah, kalau partai islam berkuasa kepentingan-kepentinga AS disana bakal terancam.

4.Partai non agamis di Indonesia sekarang cenderung mengislamisasikan agenda-agenda mereka sehingga bisa menarik lebih banyak pendukung

Faisal Assegaf (Journalist)-Moderator-Luthfi Assyaukanie(Freedom Institute)

5.otherwise, partai agamis Indonesia cenderung menasionalisasikan agenda-agenda mereka juga untuk menarik lebih banyak pengunjung.

6.pada saat Ataturk menghapuskan sistem khilafah sekitar 1920-an, semua ulama-ulama islam di dunia geger dan mengadakan konfrensi dimana Indonesia juga diundang dan Indonesia tidak terlalu peduli dengan penggunaan sistem khilafah, jadi kalau sekarang aad aktivis-aktivis yang mengingkan kembali sistem khilafah. kata Pak Lutfhi Assyaukanie dari Freedom Institute "BASI" 

Adam,Latif,Bu Emma (my lecturer from UI),Sugi,me,Feny and Omen

congraduation

have to say congratulation for my best friend graduation. he's my weird and nerd bestfriend since higschool, back then, they were three of us, called 'keiiyong' Me, Ahda and Tegar, somehow we still catch up until we are in college, actually three of us got into same university but Ahda got scholarship to SNU so he left us :( anyway, this post is dedicated to Tegar :) 

1st grade of highschool

1st semester in college

also, the 1st semester

And finally, my keiiyong graduated with A in his undergraduate thesis, proud of him! welcome to new chapter of life,keep amazing and close!

faculty of law, today!

XOXO!